Real talk #2

Starting this topic yesterday gave me great pleasure knowing that it contains practical steps to building up a person. I encourage every one that reads this to drop a message that will inspire another to become a better person. Thank you for the comments and likes. It is a journey into personal development and by the time we are done you will be glad you joined the train.

Today on real talk I want us to be naked in heart and be true to our selves and let us try to answer these questions. Who am I?, what is my purpose on earth?, what are my talents? what are my potentials? if you cant find answers to these, then you have to go into a deep search for them or you will just end up existing without any meaningful contribution to the cosmos.

Man will sin against God and humanity if he fails to do business with his difference. what do I mean by difference?. Your uniqueness is your difference. God created us different for a reason. He didn’t make identical twins same in gift and abilities. Every human being is different and that is what makes us unique. Your difference is what makes you who you are. If you know who you are , you will then realize that you have a solution others don’t. If you refuse to trade with your difference (talent, ability,calling) you will rob the earth the purpose for your creation.

Humanity is a creation of massive network. Everyone a productive link to the network chain process.


  • knowing who you are should be the first question of every man. That is if you want to be a positive energy to this network.
  • finding what you are wired for will help you to know what to do to become productive.  In it you will find passion and immense energy
  • you will find grace, favor , creativity in your niche when you enter into purpose

Thank you for reading and don’t forget to drop a comment that will add content to this article. someone may just be waiting for the write words. let us make the world a better place altogether.


Real Talk

Today I just felt like connecting to someone out there. I  just want to reach out to someone in positive conversation. I have some great mentors but will mention one who has a been a great influence on Personal development John C.Maxwell. The truth about life is that we will never attain a full expression of our talent or gift without taking the pains and steps to develop what so ever we feel we have got inside. We all have something inside to give to the world. But no body wants a stone, they want diamonds, no body wants crude oil, they want petrol/gas, no one cares much about some flour on a the table , they want small chops/snacks. All these beautiful end product we all desire went through what is called a Process.

If I look back from where I started to where I am now this is what I have to say

” I am not a better writer, I am just someone who wakes up every morning write some more, learn and re-learn and task my self and my inner creativity. I learn to crawl, stand ,walk…This i do continuously”

Characteristic of Process.

  • Stages: Every process is broken down into stages. When you are in a process it is paramount you know all the stages involved to becoming the outcome you desire. For instance making a bread.


Image credit: Allied bakeries

If you skip a process, you wont get any desired result and also if you stop at any stage , you wont be making bread after all.

Tips: Do not jump the fire.

The mixing stage will crush, the fire stage is will burn, just make sure you do not skip the fire process. There is no process that comes easy, it will crush you, it will hurt you and can be painful.

Now you know very well that to come out beautiful you need to develop your process and it isn’t going to be a days job. It is going to be a process. So the next big question will be when do I start? I will say why not start now. To get more on why you should start now I will recommend you read “Start From Now” .

To get the best out of your self this year, you will have to be discipline. Only by self discipline can you achieve the desired progress you aspire in your self development journey.

Thank you for your time. Please drop a comment that can help me or any one out there.

Just an epic Love story #17

Dear Val,

Sailing across the Atlantic ocean just watching an endless view of the ocean, all that come rushing through my mind was how much I have missed you. I shouldn’t have said I hate  you last night

I will give all I have to take back those words right now

i will give all I have

just to be with you once more

just to be by your side and hear your heartbeat

just to see you laugh once more

just to see you smile

just to hear your voice once more

just to set my eyes on your voice once again

to share just one happy moment with you my dear friend and to say

I love you.

With Love Lucas

Have you ever said words to your loved ones and wished you could take it back but kind of seem too late? let us hear your experience. Feel free to share your experience, someone will be out there that needs to hear it. Thank you for reading . Much Love Tim.

Just an epic love story #16

I first enjoyed the companion of your frienship
Then bewitched
By the enticing charm of your smile
By the warmth of your soul
By the beauty that lies deep within the cavity of your heart
It takes a blind heart not to see
It takes an insensitive heart not to connect to that which got me engrosed into you.


As I found the glimpse of light

my whole being responded

i felt invincible immediately

the darkness that covered my mind disappeared

knowledge has given me another perspective

knowledge has given me another view

about my present situation

about my problem

about everything i see

knowledge has broken the chains of mediocrity that has tied me down to an average life


Seek knowledge, in it you will find wisdom and wisdom is profitable to direct . it will deliver you from destruction and poverty.

Please drop a comment and contribute in making some body’s life better today.


Another Baby

Hi dear readers,
Thank you for your love, likes and comments. Without you My random writings wouldn’t have been read this far. It all started as a journal for my personal consumption and now to a blog that has grown from 0 to a 100+ with readers across the globe. Today I am glad to tell you that the single step I took to pick courage and let the world see my writing and what I have inside has transformed my life entirely. It has made me believe more in my self and let me know their are people that will appreciate what you got only if you let it out.
We are indebted to this world and we must try to live a legacy as a thank you for the enormous gift we have received.

Today I present to another Blog of mine this blog will be dedicated to Personal Development drive. It is something I am passionate about. As humans we can’t give our best if we don’t develop our potentials, if we don’t refine our abilities. The world is waiting for you and I. Please join me in this journey. With Love Tim.

What’s that I keep hearing about I…

As humans, we are created unique beings, a model. Until we learn to appreciate our difference then we won’t embrace it and if we can’t embrace it then there is no way we can be able to harness the power and energy it generates when we come together. We are all created dependable 

As the old saying goes ” no man is an island”. For real no man can live successfully cut off from a positive relationship. You will always need the expertise of some one else. In business it is adviced you out-source some resources or services rather than wasting much time and resources trying to do everything all by your self.

My 2017…

Hi everyone . I wish you all a happy new year. I thank God for seeing us through to 2017. It is another time for gratitude and I have a lot to be grateful for in life.
Starting off the new year with great enthusiasm. I have been waiting for the new page and its finally here. Not much of a resolution made though but I made some decisions on diligence and discipline. I realize we make a routine at the beginning of every year and a lot of us don’t continue with our resolution pass two months. We all set realistic goal that will Continue reading